Beginning of the smear campaign...

Julie's smear campaign against Michael Robertson began when she tried to deflect her crystal meth use, prostitution to support that habit, and her three desertions and apathy toward parenting leading up to Michael Robertson's ultimate filing for divorce in May of 1998.

I. EARLY HISTORY DISPARAGEMENT

Since Michael Robertson was a university tutor, at least half a dozen students would meet at his home and do nightly study sessions at his home, and these groups formed close friendships during these undergraduate and postgraduate years. in the 1990s. 

During the times of Julie's issues, she began to disparage Michael Roberson to our peers by saying he's paranoid, illogical, and "crazy." It was only after Julie "crashed" on crystal meth use did she admit to her drug addiction and behaviors towards to family, first to Shannon, who went on to work in the field after graduation. Then, she admitted her drug addition and behaviors to the rest of our peers. Shannon, an African American from Brooklyn, New York, commented that he would never trust women again, based on Julie's deception and lies leading up to her admission. Her personality as a sociopath was exposed, as was the narcissist abuse Michael Robertson endured during these times of disparagement.

According to author, Peg Streep (June 27, 2019:

"The smear campaign is born out of a combination of factors, including  the need to be right and have his or her “truth” become the prevailing  script, retaining status and standing (making sure that his or her inner  hidden shame doesn’t become public), and maintaining control of his or her image. The woman or man high in narcissistic traits curates her or his public persona very carefully; appearing successful, accomplished, and together is all-important."

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201906/dealing-the-narcissists-smear-campaign

Julie tried to promote an alternate reality of victim hood in 1998,, but the testimony of our peers, schoolmates, neighbors, family friends, nurses, case workers, behavioral health records, police reports, investigative reports, counseling audio tapes, and documentary evidence presented overwhelmingly exposed Julie Bacolas as the sociopath narcissist perpetrator she was. Instead of seeking mental health assistance for her sexually abused youngest daughter, she skipped out of town in the middle of her 1998 divorce with her boyfriend, to avoid his questioning and potential prosecution for he crimes of sexually assaulting a minor.

This page explains who Ed Stoffers is, what he did to my family,, and what he is continuing to do to perpetrate upon society in the post sexual abuse of my youngest daughter:

https://juliebacolas.com/ed-stoffers

II. Julie Bacolas return after 9 years of child abandonment, menticide on her severely mentally ill children, and the 12 year smear campaign executed against Michael Robertson.

Julia Bacolas was absent from her four children’s lives from 1998  until 2005. In 2005, she made a brief two hour visit with the children,  unannounced. That year, she came back to Phoenix for mother’s day.Her second oldest son, 15 years old in 2005, was committed to St. Luke's behavioral health unit for adolescents, the fist in a sting of in patient psychiatric treatments that was precipitated with the trauma associated with the young man's mother's return. This is the year that pedophiic behaviors started to be notice with the oldest son. There was no indication of reprogramming her children for an alternate reality, but for one argument the youngest and oldest children had with  her prior to her departure. 

Julie visited again in 2006, which was the same year of continued expression of pedophilia in her oldest son.  She was was absent  from the children's lives for approximately two years, until 2008. Julie made phone contact with the children periodically between 2006 and  2008, promising to relocate to Arizona to be close to the children,  promising visits for Christmas that never happened, and promising to be  part of her children’s lives, which never occurred. Between 2008 and 2009, three of Julie's children became severely mentally ill, one with schitzoaffective disorder, one with pedophilia, and the third, the repressed victim of the sexual assault of Julie's boyfriend, became symptomatic of bipolar disorder with psychotic features. In hindsight, these ad adolescent children became symptomatic of severe mental illness that correlates with Julie Bacolas' reintroduction into their lives, the menticide perpetrated upon the children on her return, and the resulting smear campaign against Michael Robertson, the father, that continues to this day.

After returning to her then adolescent children's lives after a nine year abandonment, Julie perpetrated an alternate reality to her children. She did not want to be remembered as the mother who neglected her children, was a crystal meth amphetamine addict, engated in prostitution to support that habit, exposed her youngest daughter to a sexual perpetrator, and abandoned her visitation and joint custody in favor of a life with the man who had abused her daughter.

Julie presented an alternate reality where she was the victim, the father had fabricated a sexual abuse claim in order to get custody, that she was not am eth addict and would never abandon her children, and that she was not a neglectful and emotionally absent parent. This brainwashing, mental manipulation, and form of mind control, is discussed on this page:

https://juliebacolas.com/menticide

Peg Streep (2019) explains this type of narcissist mental manipulation:

 “My mother stopped at nothing when I went no contact. She spread  rumors about me to family members, my neighbors, and even got in touch  with my boss. My boss had no idea who she was, by the way, but that  didn’t matter to Mom. Lies, and more lies. She told people I’d stolen  from her, that she’d stopped speaking to me because I was violent, that I  abused my kids. She actually wanted to call social services on me but,  thankfully, someone talked her out of it. Or so I heard. It was all  unreal and over the top.” 

Shari Stines (2017) explains that this type of mental manipulation is common to sociopathic narcissistic manipulators:

 "It took FOREVER to finally leave the person in your life with narcissism, only to realize that once you made that fateful decision, your name became mud.

"Your ex is not going to let you go without a fight. You’re going to be villainized like you never experienced before the breakup."

"All your friends and family will hear how crazy, unbalanced, manipulative, and narcissistic you are. Your ex will be sure to strike first; you may not want to strike at all, but your hand may seem forced."

"The smear campaign of a person with narcissism can be so convincing.  Since, throughout the relationship, you mainly kept your mouth shut  about the problems you were having, no one really saw this coming. When  your ex starts to talk negatively about you, with feelings of hurt and  strong conviction, others may be inclined to believe what they hear.  They had no idea how “crazy” you were, but now, if they think about it,  they do remember the time you did x, y, or z."

Like many people with narcissistic qualities, your ex can be a master manipulator.  They can turn on the sad eyes and tears, convincing everyone how dearly  you are loved by them and how clueless they are about why it ended so  abruptly. Maybe it’s menopause or a midlife crisis on your part. Obviously, something is wrong with you."

 "The smear campaign may even work with your children. The children have  become so accustomed to an abusive relationship that the concept of scapegoating seems normal. Blaming and villainizing others has been modeled as  acceptable. They may see nothing abnormal about making you a target of  wrath. And since they love the parent with narcissism, they likely want  to win their favor, which makes it all the more easy for them to join in  the campaign."

https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/leaving-person-with-narcissism-here-comes-smear-campaign-0920174

 I approached the children about the family  meeting Julie had with them. I contacted my daughter's counselor at the  time of the abuse in 1998, Rochelle Silverman, who lived and had a  practice in Miami, Florida, in 2009. My oldest son and youngest daughter  (repressed childhood abuse) believed their mother over me and I tried  to get these children on the phone with Ms. Silverman, but both children  refused. My youngest daughter refused to speak with her former  counselor due to her mother's extreme menticide. Rochelle offered to  come to Phoenix for family counseling to heal the family, but my oldest  son and my daughter refused to participate. Julie Bacolas did not  exercise her right, under joint custody in 1998, to request a second  counselor treat and interview her youngest daughter . In 2009, Julie  bacolas did not have a psychologist present for her "intervention", nor  at any follow up family meetings where the alternate reality was panned  to her severely mentally ill children, as such a menticide and the  mother's agenda is in gross violation of the ACA Code of Ethics and no  professional would participate or sign off on memory replacement therapy  by a sociopath..

Narcwise.com explains this disparagement in these terms:

What is the ‘smear campaign’?

It is the intentional and systematic  dissemination of deceptive information designed to undermine, discredit,  and further isolate you.

The narcissist paints you in a  misleading and toxic light using strategies including but not limited to  exaggeration, instigation of rumors, slander, and lies.

The spreading of misinformation is not  necessarily restricted to verbal communication. Some may go so far as to  falsify documentation to substantiate their wild claims.

To get you where it really hurts, they  target any person available to them who matters to you. No one and  nothing is off limits to the narcissist.

This encompasses your family members,  all friends both mutual and non-mutual, employer and/or co-workers, and  members of communities to which you belong (e.g.: church, volunteering  organizations, sporting teams etc.).

Anyone accessible to the narcissist in your professional and personal networks is fair game.

This will be mind blowing to you – how could they possibly go there? Your family? Your friends? How could they?

The answer is simple: because of their complete lack of boundaries and respect for yours or anyone else’s.

There will never be an adequate  explanation for the horrendous act of being smeared with such  vindictiveness. Particularly from one who either has, or still does,  profess to care for you.

No reasoning will ever excuse the  narcissist, nor account for the betrayal and broken trust you feel  towards those in your previously solid support network who have lapped  up the narcissists lies.

Having said this, understanding the motivations of the narcissist may help you acknowledge what kind of person they really are.

Those who have Narcissistic Personality  Disorder (NPD) ‘discarded’ early on in life their true selves, replacing  this with a false self as a protective mechanism.

This invented self is one built on beliefs of superiority, omnipotence, and entitlement.

Maintaining their delusion and the  validity of their false self is a matter of survival (for their ego of  course…). Because without this, there is no ‘self’ to the narcissist.

To sustain the beliefs attached to the  false self, the narcissist constantly hunts for external reinforcement  that they are correct. This is what fuels the narcissist, a.k.a. supply.

Asserting power over others through  manipulation is how the narcissist proves to themselves that they are in  control, and that they are indeed superior, omnipotent, and entitled to  all they desire.

These mechanics are at the core of all the things the narcissist does. Including the smear campaign.

Let’s have a look at how it plays out.

When the narcissist has sufficiently  groomed their next target, and made the decision to move on to them, the  inevitability of your discard looms.

This triggers their ‘go to’ set of well-used steps to make this happen.

As an abusive narcissist, they know that they have an established pattern of devaluation and discard in relationships.

They also know that to succeed in getting away with this repetitive cycle takes active management on their behalf.

In other words, to be able to keep doing  it, they need people on side who won’t blow the whistle when they  target and replace victims, one by one.

For the narcissist, the smear campaign  is a handy strategy to mitigate the possibility of anyone asking  questions, including the new target.

Specifically, questions around what kind  of person would ditch their current partner (that they have been  actively abusing and hence is suffering a bunch of psychological,  mental, and physical symptoms which may be apparent to others), for  someone they have been wooing as a replacement for quite some time?

And not just once, but over and over again.

Too many questions of this sort could  place their choice of lifestyle, and any given primed & current  source of supply, in jeopardy.

In addition to preventing this, and of  equal importance to the narcissist is avoiding having their integrity  questioned. The effect of this for them is tantamount to denying their  superiority, omnipotence, and entitlement….a narcissistic injury in the  making, and one to be avoided at all costs.

Clearly, protecting their abuse and discard lifestyle is paramount.

Being completely aware of all of this, the narc begins the smear campaign.

In this scenario, once the replacement is identified, and before discard takes place, the narcissist begins sowing insidious seeds of doubt in people’s minds.

Initially, subtle hints are suggested  casually, and intricate tales involving some element of truth for  inevitability are dropped here and there. For example, these could be  weaving together evident facts to fit a fictitious tale, or exploiting  your vulnerabilities.

As the need to discard becomes imminent, momentum gathers.

Having pinpointed receptive audiences in  those who have not established a boundary with the narcissist, gears  shift, and overt statements are made.

The narcissist at this point openly  makes claims that are completely fabricated, as well as frequent  projections detailing events that have actually taken place…except that  upon their retelling suddenly you’ve both swapped roles. A reality  switcheroo: you are the abuser, and they are the victim.

This is the aim of the game. To portray the narcissist as long-suffering at the hands of your crazed and abusive mind.

This way, the risk of being held  accountable for their behaviors and actions is minimized. And, the  likelihood of understanding from others of their need to break free from  you, and receptivity to their new target, is increased.

The only children who initiially bouth winto the goals of this menticide was the oldest son, who came down with pedophilia disorder upon the mother's reentry into his life, and the youngest daughter who was the victim of sexual abuse by the mother's boyfriend in 1998, who  became symptomatic of bipolar disorder with psychotic features upon reestablishing contact with Julie Bacolas.

III. HEIGHTENING OF SMEAR CAMPAIGN IN 2010

Julie Bacolas had told my oldest son atrocious and false  statements about me and why we divorced. Bizarre things that I cannot  and will not repeat here. Disgusting and grotesque. None of what Julie  told my oldest son was true. I tried to rationalize with my oldest son,  that Julie did not bring such foul accusations against me during our  divorce proceedings in 1998, during our highly contentous divorce and  custody matters. I tried rationalizing with my son that if her  allegations were not contrived and true, she surely would have asserted  these things before the judge. None of the perverse and defamatory  remarks about me made to my older son was alleged in my 1998 divorce and  custody, because they were false and made up by Julie after the fact,  to divert blame for her conduct as a mother and her resulting  abandonment of our common children. I could not rationalize this with a  severely mentally ill young man. 

Colter Tanner (2019) examines this form of narcissistic abuse:

"Toxic people will gossip behind your back (and in front of your face),  slander you to your loved ones or their loved ones, create stories that  depict you as the aggressor while they play the victim, and claim that  you engaged in the same behaviors that they are afraid you will accuse  them of engaging in. They will also methodically, covertly and  deliberately abuse you so they can use your reactions as a way to prove  that they are the so-called “victims” of your abuse."

"Smear campaigns are a method of damage control that narcissists  implement when they know they have been found out. A common smear  campaign might involve portraying the former victim as some sort of  crazy, bipolar, addict, alcoholic, unstable, good digger, thief,  cheater, or bad parent. By creating a series of lies, exaggerations,  half-truths, suspicions and false allegations about the victim’s  behavior these serve to undermine the victim’s credibility and sanity.  Reasons, why a smear campaign works so well to harm the victim, is: The  victim loses trust in all friends and loses their support system, they  become isolated, fearful and don’t know where to turn. Think of this as a  ‘sorting hat’, from Harry Potter, this will be the weeding out of true  friends and people you didn’t need in your life anymore."

https://narcissistabusesupport.com/red-flags/narcissistic-smears-narcissist-abuse-smear-campaigns/

The initial menticide only garnered the brainwashing by Julie Bacolas with her oldest son and the victim who had repressed her sexual abuse. As a result, pedophilia disoder developed in the male and bipolar disorder with psychotic features with the adolescent survivor of abuse. In hiindsight, the children may have inherited the same sociopathy as their mother and the same arrcissistic personality disorder, as described by the DSM 5, there may be genetic factors in play. Specifically, the older and youngest daughter suffered from severe developmental disabilities during early childhood, which may have effected the chemistry of their brains.

The initial menticide only garnered the brainwashing by Julie Bacolas with her oldest son and the victim who had repressed her sexual abuse. As a result, pedophilia disoder developed in the male and bipolar disorder with psychotic features with the adolescent survivor of abuse. In hiindsight, the children may have inherited the same sociopathy as their mother and the same arrcissistic personality disorder, as described by the DSM 5, there may be genetic factors in play. Specifically, the older and youngest daughter suffered from severe developmental disabilities during early childhood, which may have effected their chemistry of their brains.

Christina Gregory, PhD (2020) identifies these genetic and psychological factors contributing to this sociopathy in the nuclear family:

"Researchers agree that both genetic and environmental causes are at  play. Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder have been found  to have less volume of gray matter in the left anterior insula, the  part of the brain related to empathy, emotional regulation, compassion,  and cognitive functioning."

https://www.psycom.net/personality-disorders/narcissistic/

The two children who fell victim of Julie's menticide, due to their own mental conditions and the non stop barage of false information by Julie Bacolas, the personality traits of narcissm, sociopathy, and absence of empathy were seen with these individuals. Furthermore, the smear campaign orchestrated by Julie Bacolas was gaslighted with these adult children, 

Julie manipulated the minds of severely mentally ill adolescents by conducting menticide, then used these people as executioners of her bizarre smear campaign against Michael Robertson, which has lasted 12 years.

Dr. Emily Mayfield (2020) discusses the use of third parties in carrying out a narcissistic smear campaign, calling them "Flying Monkeys". She describes them:

 "The narcissist will choose a flying monkey whom they believe validates them and will pass on messages in a way that supports the narcissist while belittles their partner.  The flying monkey is rarely an impartial third party because that would not serve the narcissist in their intended goal of control and manipulation.  The flying monkey cannot have their own opinion, especially when it is counter to the narcissist and their intended goal."

"The flying monkey is doing the dirty work for the narcissist, but they are also responsible for the negative interactions created. The flying monkey will gossip, gaslight, and create chaos between the partner and the narcissist to create and maintain a smear campaign.  The flying monkey works at the requests of the narcissist, but gets their own satisfaction from the chaos created, which results in them being enablers. However, the flying monkeys are also being played and manipulated by the narcissist and they have been drawn in through some of the same methods the narcissist has used on their partner such as love bombing and hoovering."

"Throughout all of this, the narcissist can sit back and play the uninvolved third party.  The issues can be seen as being between the flying monkey and the narcissist’s partner.   Narcissists create tangled webs of people that support their game of control and manipulation.  Each person is a pawn used by the narcissist in their game of blame and playing the victim.."

https://www.mindsettherapyonline.com/blog/what-is-a-flying-monkey-narcissist-smear-campaign-at-work

Only two of the four children fell immediate victim of the menticide Julie Bacolas had perpetrated, with the oldest daughter and second oldest son remembering their childhood and rejecting the maternal manipulation.

The youngest daughter, repressing the childhood abuse she so vividly recalled on documented audio tape counseling sessions with Rochelle Silverman as a child, became symptomatic of bipolar disorder with psychotic features from the menticide. The oldest son, the most vocal of the flying monkeys early on, became the official spokesperson for Julie's menticide and conducted a ruthless smear campaign against his father from 2009 until 2020. The oldest son became symptomatic of pedophilia disorder upon these early interactions with his mother., which ballooned into a full mental illness by 2009.

Michael Robertson entered into another marriage in 2008 and had two more children,. The four older Bacolas children were angry at their father's marriage, the did not like the "issues" related to the father's second wife (verbal and emotional abuse of the older children), and money. Their father embarked in a career field to make money to provide a middle class lifestyle for his adolescent children, and the marriage to the second wife took money and resources from the older children from the first marriage. Since it has been identified that these children are hereditary narsissists and lack empathy, for a want for a better word, 

Gail Goss (2015) details the personality development and resulting use by Julie Bacolas of these children as her flying monkeys:

"At the core of narcissism is a form of sociopathy. So a narcissistic  child may have heightened emotions, depression, criminal tendencies and  an unrealistic sense of self. And because a narcissistic child  overcompensates for feelings of inadequacy, he is profoundly invested in  maintaining a persona of perfection and self-aggrandizement."

"The narcissistic child, therefore, develops a personality that must  maintain his feeling of being special, having special talents and being  entitled to special treatment. His need for attention and entitlement  can lead to exaggerated emotional responses when those needs are not  met. He is easily bruised emotionally and sensitive to any form of  criticism, blame or shame. He is not empathetic and can become a bully,  or act out in dangerous and aggressive ways."

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2015/03/13/narcissism-in-children-has-many-causes-but-it-can-be-addressed/

The father admits to telling the older children his want for two more children while they were adolescents. Michael Robertson would repeat dreams he languished about as a single man and father, of two more children. After Michael met his second wife, those dreams became a reality with the birth of his two sons. 

 A flying monkey can be anyone who believes the narcissist's fake persona, including the narcissist's spouse, child, friend, sibling, neighbor or cousin.According to popular psychology author Angela Atkinson, flying monkeys are usually unwittingly manipulated people who believe the smears about the victim although they may be another narcissist working in tandem. 

According to narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) author Sam Vaknin and other writers, proxy abusers can come from a number of sources:

• the abuser's associates
• the victim's associates – manipulated to side with the abuser
• authority and institutional figures – manipulated to side with the abuser

 "The flying monkey does the narcissist's bidding to inflict additional torment on the target.[3][7][10] It may consist of spying, spreading gossip, threatening, painting the narcissist as the victim (victim playing) and the target as the perpetrator (victim blaming).[3][7]  Despite this, the narcissist does not hesitate to make flying monkeys his or her scapegoats when and if needed."

"The flying monkeys may make it seem like the narcissist is not  really involved, and they likely have no idea that they are being used.[3][7][11] Multiple flying monkeys act as a mobbing force against a victim."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flying_monkeys_(popular_psychology)

For whatever machiavellian  narsisstic reasons, Julie Bacolas gaslighted the fractured relationship with his older children due to the marriage to his second wife, and the children's perceived hurt  from what they erroneously believed was their father withheld their mother from their lives. Julie Bacolas gaslighted the children's retribution against the father with the false reality she imposed upon them through menticide,

According to John P. Cunha, Do, FACOEP (2020):

"In children, the core features of narcissistic personality disorder may manifest in the following ways:

• Believing they are better than other kids 
• Difficulty making friends/maintaining friendships
• See getting attention as their right/need to be center of attention
• Withdrawal from others who do not give attention or admiration
• Not expressing gratitude to parents or others for being kind 
• Excluding  other children from their playgroup based on superficial  characteristics such as the other child being poor, having a lower  social status, or if other children are unable to perform the same tasks  with what they feel is an appropriate skill level
• Not taking responsibility for their actions and the consequences
• Throwing temper tantrums when criticized 
• Resentment at being told what to do
• Refusal to recognize the authority of others 
• Gaze aversion (not looking into the eyes of someone speaking to them)
• Pathologic play
• Separation anxiety
• Having high and unreasonable expectations of others
• Magnified feelings of envy: The child is offended if others are seen as better than him in any way
• Often accompanies antisocial behavior: The child will get into fights or steal toys from other children."

https://www.emedicinehealth.com/what_are_the_signs_of_a_narcissistic_child/article_em.htm

According to Julie Sprankles (2020), parents gaslight their children in the ways these children were gaslighted by Julie Bacolas against their father:

“the use of deflection, distraction, and blame by one person to hide  some truth, or to benefit in some way, at the cost of another.” It’s an  especially insidious form of psychological torment and emotional abuse  because sometimes the person doing the gaslighting doesn’t even realize  they’re guilty of the behavior. 

After weeks of arguing and conversations, Michael Robertson told his second wife in April, 2018, that he was intending on taking custody of their two minor children due to continued "issues" interfering with parenting, the family, etc. Michael was leaving with the children. His second wife, knowing he had raised four children as a single father and would be competent to do so with a second family, preempted his departure with their children by calling the children's school and asked them to make a DCS report against the father.

The DCS interview with the mother evaluated concerns with her parenting, so the children were taken out of her care and placed in a dependency. 

The two minor children were eventually put in a family placement while the dependency was pending....so the children went with the oldest daughter, the bipolar with psychotic features, and the pedophile with full access. The father resisted the dependency, based on his credentials and past vettings. Ultimately, the goal of the Department of Child Safety changed from child welfare to protecting the department from another civil litigation for unwarranted and unsubstantiated loss of association with a man and his minor children.

 V. ENTER THE FLYING MONKEYS

Between 2012 and 2017, the father's relationships with his children became estranged, due to his continued relationship with his second wife and the ongoing menticide by Julie Bacolas. Michael stopped having contact with his adult children in 2015. 

After the dependency began as a temporary placement with DCS, the youngest daughter contacted the department with hghly inflammatory accusations about her father which were very bizarre. Upon a DCS investigation of the case files from the father's 1998 divorce and investigation of Ed Stoffers for child abuse, the department self impeached that statement. The youngest daughter made follow up statements in April, 2019, contradicting statements made a year prior to the department. On a default judgment entered against the father for a non calendared court date by his attorney, these inflammatory statements were never entered against the father, as the department knew they were false and impeachable in court.

Laura Williamss (2018) shared a similar experience with Flying Monkey family members, executing the smear campaign on behalf of the narcissist abuser:

 "My narcissister smear campaigned me and our brothers in Feb 2018 but I  didn’t know at the time what it was. I didn’t know about narcissism,  flying monkeys, smear campaigning etc. I just knew this was really  weird, mean, and these people, her friends, were falling for her spin. I  call her Miss Spider she spins her web well.Anyway, it hurt like hell."

"I remember crying at work after reading what her friends (some also  narcs) wrote. She had her flying monkey friends do the dirty work. One  of them I am sure is a narc too so he was particularly vicious. She let  that nasty post sit on FB for months. My first mistake, in ignorance, I  responded."

"My response was not kamikaze or emotional. It was rather an  essay-like response, but it was a response just the same which is always  narci-fuel. After I learned not to respond I just unfriended her and  blocked her ass."

"But before my enlightenment I just knew something was really off  about her and blamed it on her drinking. But everything was always all  about her so I googled something like: “Alcoholism vs narcissism” to see  which is was. It was obvious narcissism. Then I went on a reading binge  and learned everything I could about covert narcissists. She’s classic."

"I found this site only after she made contact with me the other day  in an attempt to Hoover me back into her web. Oh, the crocodile tears.  “I miss you, little sister.”  “I love you.”  “Do you still love ME?”

The father won the case on appeal, and the state withdrew the severance due to "errors", which the father claims were false pleadings. Michael Robertson was preparing for his children's return in February,, 2020, as the state had no case, and based on his reputation and previous vetting, he was scheduled and expected to receive his children for a unification. For more on MIchael Robertson, click on this page:

https://juliebacolas.com/michael-robertson

Upon the reunification of the children with their father, the state filed a second severance (double jeopardy?), and this second time, attacked Mr. Robertson's character and reputation. The father had an impeccable reputation, was vetted by the department five times previously, and the state had no case to sever his parenting. However, the intent of the state was not child welfare, but protecting the department and the Sate of Arizona from another civil settlement by  yet another maligned parent. Michael Robertson was very boisterous about his intent to file a civil action, to his detriment.

Tho only hoe the department had in severing my parental rights to my two minor children from my first marriage was to prejudice the court so badly with a vaudeville show by parading my severely mentally ill children before the judge, that the court would find "in the best interests of the children" and better to "error on the side of caution" and rule in favor of a severance for family placement.

Michael's attorney impeached the testimony of two of Julie Bacolas' flying monkeys, and were preparing to impeach the rest of the brood, but he was advised of the prejedice such bizare conduct of his older children did to the proceedings, which included accusations of killing children and dismembering their bodies, putting dogs in bags and slamming them against walls, and raping children. So, Michael self severed his parental rights.

The minor children from the second marriage is placed for adoption with the oldest daughter of Julia Bacolas, mental status unknown, but obviously a victim of the menticide after 12 years of psychological manipulation by Julie Bacolas (and the fact that she is 29 years old, childless, and assumed she cannot have children). These children have unfettered access to the bipolar with psychotic features, the schitzoaffective, and the pedophile. Behold, the sociopath narcissist created narcissist offspring and used them as flying monkeys. The father's repressed suspicions came to fruit....a family of sociopaths!

VI. MICHAEL ROBERTSON STRIKES BACK!

Michael firmly believes the intent behind the sociopathic menticide against his older children by Julia Bacolas, turning the severely mentally ill and suspected narcissists into her own personal flying monkeys, and the resulting severance from his tow minor children from a malicious smear campaign, was tad amount to trying to kill him and make him commit suicide.

Michael has dealt with an ongoing train wreck of tragedies, but to hurt this man, to injure him, requires a "hit job" against his children.

Michael's relationship with his children has been, and will continue to be, the life force that directs him.

So, they attacked this man through his children.

Did Julie Bacolas' scheme worked? Absolutely not!

Michael Robertson has come out swinging...

To restore his destroyed reputation by these people, he has published this website, with no intent to harm or damage anyone, but rather to attempt to restore his reputation, which he has been a victim of malicious defamation of character by these people and their schemes:

https://juliebacolas.com/disclaimer

As for his minor children? There is a mountain of evidence proving these flying monkeys and Julie Bacolas has spread knowingly false in formation in the community, with the intent of destroying this man. He is in the process of filing multiple defamation of character claims in civil court to make these people account for their narcissistic behavior.

https://juliebacolas.com/michael-robertson

Further, separate civil actions are under way for tortious interference with parental rights, tortious interference with parental visitation, alienation of affections, and adoption fraud. He is attempting negotiations with the older children to mitigate his damages and have access to his minor boys, the apple of his eye.

There will be no negotiated settlement with Julie Bacolas!

Julie is an unfit mental health counselor. She earned her degree requirements in 1998, but was not granted her Masters in Counseling until many years later, due to her character decencies. 

A complaint is being drafted to the American Counseling Association for her menticide, sociopathy, and continued narcissistic abuse and use of her children as flying monkeys in her ex husband's dependency with his two minor children.

Although there is a licensing requirement with the State of Arizona for Counselors, no such licensing was found for this individual off the state website.

Evidence has been identified where Julie Bacolas took course work from Michael Robertson's university studies and submitted that work as her own, so charges of academic plagiarism will be filed forthcoming with Arizona State University and Chapman University.

This woman is practicing as a mental health counselor, but has no profiles on Healthgrades, Vitals, social media sites for professionals, practice information for her as a counselor, yellow page listings, etc.  As a counselor, this woman is under the radar.

Furthermore, her husband or whatever he is, was arrested for "dangerous drugs" which is suspect, as Julie Bacolas is employed as a substance abuse counselor for Community Medical Services in Kingman, Arizona, and herself, has a history of untreated crystal meth amphetamine addiction:

https://www.havasunews.com/news/kingman-man...

Edward   T. Stoffers, 54, of Kingman, was arrested April 17 in reference to a   Kingman Justice Court felony warrant for alleged dangerous drugs...

https://juliebacolas.com/ed-stoffers

As a behavioral health clinician, I have a "duty to report" where a mental health counselor poses a risk to the population they are serving. 

There will never be a negotiated settlement between Michael Robertson and Julia Bacolas.. She could disclose to her children the menticide and manipulations she had done, to spare them of the pending legal consequences for their actions, but that would take empathy and caring for one's own children, and those attributes are void and not present with a sociopath machiavellian narcissist. No negotiations with a "non human."

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19902 N 146th Way, Sun City West, AZ 85375 | Sun City West Presented by: Jennifer Bacolas. Brokered by: Long Realty West Valley; (602) 483-4910. Broker Location: ANTHEM, AZ. 

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