Leandra Stenbak: Survivor of Michael Bacolas NPD Pedophilia

"I pray to God that Leandra forgives me for bringing him into this world and the terror he caused her and my grandchildren!" Michael Robertson, 2021

Michael Bacolas Jr met Leandra Stenbak when they were children attending the same school together in Phoenix, Arizona, at Manzanita Elementary School. They never dated as children in the sixth grade, assumingly due to Michael's preoccupation with girls much younger than their age group.

Since they were children in the same grade level and classrooms during their childhood, Leandra Stenbak was aware that Michael Bacolas was receiving special education services for the cognitive deficiencies and developmental delays that is now known to be the neurological markers for narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and the expression of narcissistic pedophilia she witnessed in his adulthood:

https://michaelbacolas.com/

Leandra Stenbak and Michael Bacolas left Manzanita Elementary School, they parted ways. After high school and the promptings for his son to start dating women, and the discovery of pedophilia by his father on his 19th birthday, Michael began courting Leandra May Stenbak.

Initially, Michael Robertson was opposed to his son dating Leandra, as she was part of the life the  family left behind after Julia Bacolas abandoned the family in 1998. Not knowing his older children had the dual diagnosis of NPD, he believed the maladaptive and antisocial behaviors exhibited by his children were due to the environment of the neighborhood and home they resided at after the divorce and abandonment by Julie Bacolas. Michael's father viewed any relations from that neighborhood as a step backwards.

That was a gross error on the part of Michael Robertson. Leandra Stenbak turned out to be a strong woman, an excellent mother, and a professional who worked hard in the support of her children in a very difficult family situation. 

Michael Robertson did not have a close relationship with is daughter-in-law due to the disparagement of his character to his son's new wife. Michael Bacolas Jr told his new wife that his father did not like her and didn't want him dating her, as part of a smear campaign, common with individuals diagnosed with NPD. 

https://jenniferbacolas.com/jordan-alexi-alaska

Covert pedophile narcissists do turn family members against one another, in part to diffuse relationships in order to keep their covert pedophilia unknown. Michael Jr. did the same slander against his father's long lost son, Jordan Alexi, as narcissists thrive on destroying family relationships.

https://queenbeeing.com/5-ways-narcissists-destroy-their-families/

Leandra May Stenbak was oblivious to her husband's pedophilia, until her discovery of prepubescent child pornography on her laptop computer. Narcissist pedophiles are known to have low moral conscious, even using the electronic devices of their innocent wives to feed their dysfunction.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FI6C-p9_uik

Throughout the history of the marriage, Leandra Stenbak battled her husband's grotesque addiction to pedophilia and his sexual fantasies of relationships with children. Enough was enough, and Leandra May Stenbak stood up to her husbands mental abuse, divorced Michael Bacolas Jr, left with her daughters, and changed her name from Leandra Bacolas, back to Leandra Stenbak, assumed to distance her reputation away from her pedophile husband and his eventuality of perpetrating on an innocent child and registering as a sex offender in the community.

https://juliebacolas.com/a-fathers-struggle-1

Michael Robertson is very concerned about his daughter-in-law and his granddaughters. Leandra Stenbak-Bacolas divorced her husband in 2019, but it is unknown if her predator ex husband has contact with their common children. It is assumed his son has visitation with the girls, but Michael Robertson has extreme anxiety over his family's safety, since his son's preoccupation is with children of that age group, Michael Robertson is very concerned about their safety. Michael Bacolas Jr is not a registered sex offender for his narcissistic pedophilia and sexual addiction to child pornography, so it is unknown if he has perpetrated on his own, or other children. Those children need counseling services to ascertain if the father's pedophilia was exposed to Mr. Robertson's grandchildren. Pedophiles always end up perpetrating on children, which is why they are required to register as sex offenders for the offence of child pornography.

https://ojjdp.ojp.gov/events/criminal-connections-child-pornography-and-child-sexual-abuse

Michael Robertson returned to the field of behavioral health in 2021, serving adult survivors of narcissistic abuse. Since Leandra Stenbak was traumatized by years of exposure of her husband's pedophilia and child pornography, and hiding these malignancies from her daughters for their protection, Leandra Stenbak is a victim of narcissistic abuse and in need of counseling to heal from the years of abuse of exposing herself, and her daughters, to a narcissist pedophile.

https://www.kcresolve.com/blog/detecting-and-healing-from-narcissistic-abuse

Leandra Stenbak is a survivor of narcissistic abuse by a NPD pedophile, and is currently a hard working single mother of two beautiful daughters, employed as a Licensed Massage Therapist, LMT, employed at Desert Sage Bodywork in Phoenix, Arizona.

https://www.facebook.com/leandra.lmt

https://desertsagebodywork.com/about

 Michael Robertson's 1998 Master's Thesis Completed with this case study: 

In 2009, Julia Bacolas conducted a menticide against her severely mentally ill (SMI) children from her first marriage, dually diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).  Her children were already symptomatic of mental illness, due to the hereditary dispositions of Julia Bacolas, whose malignant genetic NPD was already heavily documented at the end of her marriage and during the divorce and custody proceedings in 1998. 

This website is a case study of a Machiavellian malignant narcissist and her NPD heredity which was passed to her children, with case studies of each SMI individual in support of this thesis. This study is a conclusion of Michael Robertson's unfinished Master's Thesis, "Accelerating Children's Cognitive Development." The conclusion is apparent: Children who are prescreened in early cognitive testing with brain abnormalities of cognitive, language, and developmental dysfunction should not have their cognitive development accelerated, as those early childhood screenings of cognitive retardation are indicative of abnormal brain development, which are cognitive markers for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Children who are identified in early childhood cognitive screenings for NPD should not have their cognitive development accelerated, as it produces adults with higher levels of criminal and malignant reasoning, and exasperates their hereditary dispositions for the expression of severe mental illness as adults.

These conclusions do not imply children with developmental cognitive delays as markers for NPD should not receive special needs services to become adaptive children. These conclusions support the premise that beyond special needs interventions, NPD children should not have their cognitive development accelerated to gifted and genius levels, as individuals suffering from this disorder have areas of the brain with abnormalities in the expression of emotional and cognitive empathy. Therefore, accelerating children to a gifted level of intelligence with an absence, or low, cognitive function for empathy, has the deleterious effect of creating adult individuals with hyper criminality and malignancy with the diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

This content is for the parties who are its subject matter. When dealing with malignant narcissism, the perpetrators must be faced with the truth of their conduct, for proper mental health awareness and healing can take place with the perpetrators of such abuse. The secondary reason for this content is to repair the reputation of Michael Robertson, grossly destroyed by these malicious attacks against his person and character by these perpetrators. And finally, the content is used as a case study in the treatment of other survivors of narcissistic abuse.